Sunday, April 12, 2009

Men if u date someone who makes the same amount of money as u do u buy them less gifts?

i have been dating mark for 3 yrs now and get gifts on my bday and xmas only.i got flowers once a 2 cards in 3 yrs.now his exwife(who was a stay at home mom) and last gf(single mom with no money) got flowers monthly,boxes of cards,expensive gifts ect.now i don%26#039;t want expensive gifts but just wonder why he does not do for me as he did for them.Its not because he got burnt becuase they did not apprecite the gifts i know they did.and i allways give him little gifts/cards for no reason and never ask for anything in return.the only thing different between me and his ex%26#039;s is i have more money so does that mean i get less gifts/love letters?

Men if u date someone who makes the same amount of money as u do u buy them less gifts?
it should have nothing to do with how much you do or don%26#039;t make and everything to do with showing love through actions and how romantic he is.





it may also be that he%26#039;s gotten into a rut and is too comfortable with the situation that he%26#039;s in and doesn%26#039;t think about it.





OR he may feel that he%26#039;s gotten burned in those 2 relationships that you mentioned and he may think that is the reason why the relationships haven%26#039;t worked out.





my advice is that you TALK to him about it and let him know how you feel. he probably doesn%26#039;t realize that this bothers you. also, give him an easy option and tell him that the things don%26#039;t have to be expensive or cost any money at all...a surprise picnic once in a while or letters/cards...are low if any cost....not everything needs to be roses once a month or anything like that. Let him know you understand the financial situation but you would just like a little more acknowledgement and attention.



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